How do you know that positive reinforcement works?

January 24th, 2012

The proof is in the pudding!! Where pudding is the positive reinforcement, of course!

Many owners question me about how positive reinforcement works, and if it works at all. In trying to move away from the old style ways of forcing compliance in a dog, or in other words, being the alpha, implementing positive reinforcement techniques seems to contradict everything that dominance model training has taught us.

Positive Reinforcement is a technique founded in canine learning theory. This can be explained in a very detailed, very complex way, but I’ve found that if we just watch our own dogs for a little while, you can see it demonstrated right there in front of you. Your dog can learn without it’s human counterpart “training” him – those actions that seem to just come naturally are typically learned behaviours, we just didn’t realize that we were teaching them.

Consider the more common complaints of dog owners; my dog won’t come when called and when I try and catch him he runs away, or my dog is always jumping up on people, or the famous ‘she’ll do anything if there’s food around!’ (and I still don’t understand why this falls in the complain department!). There are also the less noticeable behaviors, such as sitting near the kitchen counter when it’s doggy dinner time, running over to the door when it’s time to go out, or dropping the ball in front of you during a game of fetch. If you really think about it, most owners didn’t teach their dogs these things on purpose – it just happens. But the dog has actually received positive reinforcement for each of these behaviours, which is why she does them reliably.

It is in these observations that I see the simplicity in learning theory – dogs will most always do what gets them what they want (sorry to burst your bubble – but they’re not doing it to please YOU!), and they will take the easiest route to get to what they want. Through trial and error, they determine what behaviours are most likely to grant them positive results. Simple as that! The key there is ‘most likely to’ – meaning that the desired result may not happen 100% of the time, but it does happen at least 51% of the time. Dogs are smart enough to do that math, and it applies to everything they learn in life – from humans, from other dogs, and from their general environment.

Here is the how and what of the above noted learning experiences:
• Poor recall – he doesn’t come when called and runs away when you try to catch him. Dogs love to play chase – he has learned that when you say Come, lean forward, then begin to approach him, you are initiating a very fun game of chase. It’s a favoured game, and he can rely on you to chase him after that sequence of events. Often, this happens at the park, and that is because he has also learned that if he doesn’t play chase with you and just comes over to you, his time at the park will be over, and he’s not ready for that yet.
• Jumping up on people – inevitably, if your dog jumps up, the person she jumps on, or you, will give her some form of attention (even if it’s ‘negative’ attention). She has learned that jumping up gets attention, and that staying quiet on the floor gets NO attention. Dogs are social creatures, and they want to interact (and smell what you’ve been eating!), so if sitting quietly gets them no interaction, and jumping always does get them interaction, they have learned that jumping works best.
• He’ll do anything when there’s food around – quite frankly, this is a positive thing! But, the aspect of learning is this – if owner has food (especially treats, which the dog knows by scent and history, are for him) it’s very likely that if he complies with the request and complies quickly, the treat will be given. This is the foundation of positive reinforcement (though we don’t always use food).
• Sitting near the counter at doggy dinner time – that one’s easy!! The dog has learned that certain cues (picking up the bowl, opening the food etc.) will result in being fed very soon. The closer she is to the food, the more quickly she’ll be fed. This one can be broken down even more, as it involves the skipping of cues. As a pup, before the cues became engrained, you would likely call your pup to the kitchen (or feeding area) once the food has been prepped. Now the adult dog has learned that they don’t have to wait to be called – once they hear that sound, some delicious food will be placed.
• Running to the door when it’s time to go out (or any consistent, natural behaviour your dog does to indicate that he needs to go outside to pee) – this often occurs after several behaviours have been tested out by the dog. Eventually, they find the one that gets your attention, and therefore they repeat this behaviour because when they do, it results in getting to go outside. Sometimes dogs aren’t so clear about their intentions, and the reward of going out happens by human coincidence. For example, my own dog has taught me that he needs to go out when he sits near me but with his back to me. It’s likely that this behaviour began to work for him because it’s an odd behaviour that caught my attention – though for a few weeks, it resulted in a list of questions starting with “do you want….??”. But now that he knows I’ve figured it out, he sits backwards reliably when it’s time to go.
• Dropping the ball in front of you during fetch – this typically comes quickly to the natural retriever, but the opposite (NOT dropping the ball) is also inadvertently taught by the owner. Dogs who regularly play fetch learn very quickly that the sooner they drop the ball, the sooner we will pick it up and throw it for her. In fact, I had one client who often played fetch while chatting about his day with his wife, and was slow in noticing the dropped ball. The dog learned not to just drop the ball, but to bounce off his owner’s chest with his two front feet, and then drop the ball. This was not a desirable behaviour for the owner, but for the dog, it was very effective in getting him what he wanted quickly – the ball was thrown right away. Dogs who refuse to drop balls often do so because it is at least 51% likely that the ball will be taken away from them – therefore, they have learned that it is in their better interest to keep the ball. These dogs are also often very good at initiating chase!! The dog who believes that it’s likely that his owner will pick up a dropped ball and immediately throw it is the dog who learns to drop the ball without being asked to.

So, when you wonder why some trainers are so emphatic about using reinforcement techniques when teaching your dog, it is because it works!!! The hard part can sometimes figuring out what that enforcement should be, and at what point in the behavior to use it. Ultimately, it all comes down to showing the dog that the behaviour we want will very likely be adequately reinforced the majority of the time. We teach the dog what works for them, and what works for us!

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How to be Your Dog’s Leader

November 5th, 2011

For all intents and purposes, I am a positive based trainer. I quite often find myself explaining to my clients positive methods for training a dog – but I was asked a question yesterday that I thought was extremely relevant for today’s dog owner, and one I don’t find myself specifically addressing: How I can be my dog’s leader if I can’t correct him?

I’ll begin by addressing this word ‘leader’. This is a common term due to pop culture, television based training, so I don’t want to continue without first clearing up my opinion on this label. Leader can mean many things – from the person at the front of a group, to the teacher you’ll never forget, to Hitler who led the Nazis. Leader can be implicated in both positive and aversive training, and given my stance on training, I’d like it to be used in the former sense. A leader should be a person who leads a dog to make appropriate decisions in any given situation, and that leader should guide that dog to make these decisions using clear and concise cues with appropriate feedback. Being the leader does not require you to be ‘the boss’ or ‘the alpha’ – it simply requires you to be the person whom your dog respects and defers to. That respect should be acquired through love and understanding, not through fear.

Studies show that the average dog learns and thinks at the same level as a three year old child. Though dogs are certainly not human, we can aptly use this comparison for the purpose of defining leadership. Say, for example, your three year old child is afraid of dogs. Explaining theories of body language, breed type, situational approaches and specific dog behaviour is not an option – a three year old doesn’t yet have the ability to rationalize and apply these theories. So, positive based training would dictate that in the presence of a dog, you should kneel calmly beside your child, tell them nice things about the dog, and if they relax or even reach out to gently touch the dog, you’d reward the child with a “good girl”, or even a popsicle. If we were to use the more popular, televised version of training, we’d grab the child by the arm firmly, march them up to the dog and force their hand onto the dog. If the child balks (which she likely would), you should firmly shake the child’s arm which you are grasping and repeat the behaviour until the child succumbs and touches the dog. For option A, the next time your child sees a dog, she will be less afraid than the last time because her experience with the dog was a positive one. For option B, it’s pretty likely your child will grow to hate dogs, and possibly be afraid of you as a parent – hopefully, not a result any parent is looking for. In both cases, the parent has been the child’s “leader”, but in only one is the parent a good leader.

Using positive training does not eliminate the possibility that you will be your dog’s leader; in fact in my opinion, it increases that likelihood. It also does not mean that your dog can do whatever he wants without consequences – it simply means that consequences do not need to be harmful or aversive. Ian Dunbar, the forefather of positive training, once said that repeated correction, (i.e. a leash jerk, that is not immediately effective, meaning one leash jerk should result in your dog walking to heel right away without repeating the behaviour of pulling) that is repeated without the desired effect then becomes harassment or abuse. So, if you’re walking a dog on leash and constant leash corrections are required without resulting in the dog learning to walk to heel, then by Dunbar’s theory you are harassing or abusing your dog. A strong statement, but when you really think about it, a true one.

This doesn’t mean a dog should pull you down the street going whichever direction he chooses. You are, after all, the leader – and this would not be a reasonable way to exercise your dog. But to be a good leader, you need to teach your dog (because he doesn’t speak English or naturally know he’s supposed to walk beside you and ignore all the stimulus going on around him that his birthright tells him he should be sticking his nose in) to walk calmly alongside you, and you can do so without harsh corrections. There are many ways – such as changing direction frequently, carrying a food treat or toy, using equipment like and EZ Walk or a Halti. And most importantly, rewarding him when he IS doing it properly!!! These tv personalities who teach ‘leadership’ are so quick to punish, yet rarely praise. The greatest leaders of our time – Obama, Ghandi, even Oprah, have all used positive based communication to get a message across, to teach and to lead, their audience. The most horrific leaders have used violence, force and manipulation.

Please – be a leader for your dog! He will love you more for it – if you choose to be a good leader. Every time you ask him to do something, and he does it, tell him he’s a good boy, or say thank you!! And if he doesn’t do it, think about whether your next step is going to be harmful to him, or going to be useful in teaching a behaviour he will gladly repeat again. My next blog will be about having fun with training . I believe in making it fun because that’s what dogs ultimately want out of life – a good time!! So if you can make them WANT to listen to you because it’s fun, wouldn’t that just be so much easier? And at the end of the day – isn’t that the way you’d want to teach your three your old to train your dog?

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The Toby Interviews – Part One

October 29th, 2011

Here at The Dog’s Assistant, although many of our cases are very serious, I try to make learning as fun as possible for both my client and their dog. The goal of my blogs is to teach, and I thought a cool way to teach you some new techniques would be to do it through the eyes of my dog – Toby. Though any trainer worth their salt will tell you how destructive it can be to anthropomorphize (aka humanize) your dog, sometimes it’s just downright hilarious to do so – and when you have a Boxer like Toby, you just can’t help yourself sometimes!! My husband Shawn and I are well known for giving a voice to Toby (think Ashton Kutcher’s character on That 70’s Show, but with a lisp), and I hope that this introduction to him will help you to hear him through our ears!

Here’s hoping you enjoy the first segment of “The Toby Interviews”!! Here you will get to know him, and in future segments, he’ll let us in on the secrets of being a well behaved, happy & healthy dog!

Tobias “Lemon” Garven – The Interviews – Part One

As you may have noticed, Toby Garven, also known to his fans as “Lemon”, has been hot on the nightclub and college scene this fall. While out on the town with his humans, several members of the pupperazzi have snapped pics of Lemon in the driver’s seat of his limousine, ready to take off for another wild night of goofing off and scavenging. Lemon has created quite the commotion, and along with the ever elusive pupperazzi, his humans have reported seeing his fans gathered around his vehicle, readily snapping photos with their smart phones of the Champion of Handsome. We at The Dog’s Assistant caught up with Lemon during one of his few moments available between photo shoots and all-night parties. Here’s what he had to say:

TDA: Do you prefer to be called Lemon, or Tobias?

TLG: Well, you know, I’m a pretty respectable guy, so most of the time I go by Toby. But, every once in a while, you gotta relax a little, you know? So, if I’m goofing off with my buddies or checking out a red carpet, Lemon’s cool with me.

TDA: How did you get the nickname Lemon?

TLG: I like to live life hard and fast. You know, make the most of my runs, my workouts. Like any tough guy, you gotta take a few hits every once in a while. I’m known on the street for being a bit of a go getter, and when you go as fast as I do, you’re bound to run into a stumbling block, like a tree or a pole, every once in a while. So that outlook on life kinda led me to be known for a guy who has a few bumps and bruises. Plus, when you party hard, it can be tough on such an athletic body, you know, getting into too much garbage (revealing later he has a soft spot for his mother’s home made garbage) so I can develop an allergy here or there. Lemons are cool though, you know. I like to think it means people find me refreshing.

TDA: How do you like to stay in shape?

TLG: My physique is very important to me. I like to show off my muscles, you know, in case I run into a sweet Chocolate Lab or something. I work out every day, do some circuit training in the living room, regular ball work in the yard. And I try to get a cross country run in at least three times a week. Plus I like to get in as much protein as I can. I would say that ultimately, it’s my beauty sleep that really finishes me off.

TDA: Do you have any weaknesses when it comes to maintaining that model-like body?

TLG: No!!!! The pupparazzi is spreading lies about me having some addiction to Cheezies, which I’d like to set the record straight right now that if I hear that again I’m a go Rawr on them!! I’ll admit, I’ve binged out on Cheezies in the past, but I completed a 12 step program, and now I have my life on the right track. I like to indulge in a little garbage here and there, but you know, only the organic stuff.

TDA: What’s on your iPod these days?

TLG: Only one thing honey – Snoop Dogg!

TDA: We’ve heard that you’re secretly involved with a Chocolate Lab – Misha, to be exact. Is this true?

TLG: That’s what they’re saying down at the park, and ya, we been out a few times. She can be pretty down to business though, and I’m really a pretty sensitive dude, so I’m not gonna hang around waitin’ for her to toss the ball.

TDA: How’s your relationship with your humans?

TLG: I gotta say, they’re pretty cool. I got my own chef – she’s called Mom – and she whips up a pretty mean veggie and fish stew. I get to go a few play rounds with my accountant – he’s called Dad – so it’s good for relieving tension. I got a cool room, gives me privacy to work on my biography. And you know, I can get Mom to throw in a DVD for me every once in a while. I’m pretty into Bolt, so that’s cool after a long photo session, or when I’m tired out after I’ve been chilling with my dogs at the park. It’s a pretty sweet deal all in all.

TDA: Do you think you have something to offer the world as far as advice for other dogs?

TLG: Ya, I have to say that my humans really helped me turn my life around. Before I had no goals in life, no self discipline. My humans taught me that you gotta be dedicated to the ones you love, and if you make an effort to understand and respect each other, life’s just so much easier. Plus, I get more treats that way, and my humans and I get to go to so many more cool places ‘cause they’re not so worried about the pupparazzi catching me doing something wild. Most importantly, it’s better for my career if I steer clear of the crazy life I used to lead.

Watch for Part Two of the Toby Interviews in coming weeks! Toby talks to TDA about nutrition, how his humans communicate, and how to win the hearts of the dogs at the park!

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Loving a Dog

August 8th, 2011

Toby in Killarney

Owning a dog, responsibly, is much like parenting – we raise them, care for them, teach them, and love them as though our hearts may burst. Like parents, we are concerned for their well being, their future, their health and what friends they keep. We are often also beside ourselves with worry and frustration when we feel we’ve gone wrong in their upbringing; when they have a fight at the dog park, destroy a lamp shade, or jump up on your mother-in-law’s Sunday best – and as a behaviour consultant, it is often I who picks up the pieces of a distraught doggie parent. But, though we may be more consumed by their shortfalls, it’s important to recognize why we go through it at all, why we love them to begin with. More often than not, it’s when they’re gone from this world that we really sit down and think about what made our hearts swell; so before that time comes, Toby, this is why I love you.

I love you because, without being taught to do so, you always come to find me and say thank you for every meal before cleaning up those last few pieces of dinner.

I love you because you can’t pass a sprinkler, hose or splash pad without trying to devour every last drop of water with the intensity of fox after a rabbit – and it always makes me laugh.

I love you because you communicate so well the intentions of another dog. I don’t doubt your opinion of my canine clients for a moment, and you are the best partner a trainer could ever ask for.

I love you because you always know just how much to bark when a stranger approaches me when we’re on our late night walks, or when we’re waiting in the car for your Daddy while he finishes work and someone gets too close to our car.

I love you because when I tell you it’s bedtime, and every night you try to bring a toy, you raise your head and whack it on the floor when I tell you to leave it. It’s so human like and hilarious, and a smile before bed always leads to good dreams.

I love you because you have such a wonderful sense of humour, and no matter how busy, sad or frustrating my day has been, you always make me laugh.

I love you because you’ve grown into such a kind, responsive, empathetic dog who always does the right thing at the right time, because you’re always in the right place and offer your paw just when I need it, and because the way you look at me gives me the strength to face each day.

I love you because you’re absolutely perfect for ME, and because you know I’m perfect for YOU.

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The Human Trainer

April 30th, 2011

We often hear, and I find it to be true, that 90% of dog training is for the human, and 10% for the dog. But this blog isn’t about that – it’s about how often dogs train US, and how rarely we notice it.

A few weeks ago, Toby needed a minor surgery which required general anesthetic, but was simple enough that I could pick him up immediately after. Being Toby, he of course strutted out of the back of the clinic with the vet tech all tough and proud, as though nothing had happened. As soon as he spots me, Mommy, he collapsed into a heap of whining and submissive body language. Almost as if he’s a child who just noticed the scrape on the knee they got two hours ago and doesn’t start to cry until they see what they’ve done to themselves. That’s Toby – my little emotional basketcase.

When we got home that afternoon, he was out of the anesthetic haze enough that he could stay awake, but was still feeling dopey and drugged. He began to whimper non-stop – partly because I’m sure he was in some discomfort from the procedure, but mostly because he was feeling confused by the after effects of the drugs, and this surely left him feeling vulnerable and afraid. Of course, I babied him, cuddled him, and made him an extra special dinner that night. I noticed that his wimpering would stop if I made eye contact with him – even when he was cuddled into me on the couch, he’d cry until I looked into his eyes. As soon as I looked away, it would start again. This is a prime example of why we include “no eye contact” in the common phrase “No touch, No talk, No eye contact” – it is just as, if not more comforting and communicative than touch and talk. I love Toby, so given what he’d been through that day, I indulged him.

The next day, he was clearly not feeling any more physical discomfort, and the drugs had completely worn off. But he was still doing this crying for attention thing. Toby is a “talker” – he howls and moans often as a part of his general behaviour, but this was different – it was a cry, a “woe is me, life is ending” kind of cry. At this point though, he really didn’t have anything to cry about. Because it was unfounded and so out of character for Toby, every time he did it, I looked at him. He had me!! Toby had effectively trained me to give him attention by crying. He kept this up at varying levels of persistence for about two weeks, and over this past week has final realized that I’m onto his game and will no longer look at him when he cries. I was adamant about putting a quick stop to this behaviour not only because it could be dangerous (when he one day cries for good reason and I ignore him), but also because it really irked me to be a dog behaviour professional being duped by her own Boxer!

This happens more often than we think. I can safely say that the vast majority of my clients start out thinking their dogs have bad behaviour because they are stupid dogs– when in fact they are very intelligent. They have found a way to get around what their owner is asking of them and get the owner to do what the dog wants to do. Ball play is where I see this the most – “He just is too stubborn and too stupid to bring it to me when I tell him to bring it back! He stops 10 feet away from me, drops it, and just as I’m about to pick it up and throw it for him, he grabs it and runs away!!!”. Your dog has taught you how to play chase!!! Dogs love this game, and play it with each other all the time – and have found a very effective way of getting their owners to play it too. What’s the first thing you do when you dog grabs your very expensive shoe from the front hall? You run after him (chasing him), yelling at him (barking), and reach forward to grab it when he stops (play bow) – ta da!! Your dog has trained you to play his favourite game!

These are just a couple of examples, but smart dogs have lots of ways of getting their owners to do what they want us to do. When you think your dog is dumb, or stubborn, think about whether that’s really accurate, or if they are just making sure that you play by their rules, instead of vice versa.

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Yogic Dog

March 29th, 2011

Recently, several close friends have taken up the practice of Yoga and have become self proclaimed addicts, and my husband has also built three studios in the last six months (check out www.trowmechanical.ca). Hence, if you are a person who listens to the voice of the universe, I was getting some clear signals to pick up Yoga again myself. So, I attended a class at the recently opened Inspire Yoga studio in Georgetown (www.inspireyoga.com) and thoroughly enjoyed the teachings of Diana, the studio’s owner. Though much of what I learned related to positions and how to use my muscles properly in those positions, we also spent a fair amount of time talking about breathing, focusing the mind, and directing your body’s energy flow. Of course, being me, I immediately found a way to relate this to dogs.

At some point in my work with every dog owner, I teach methods of communicating with your dog in canine language – such as proper body posture, calming the mind, and maintaining emotional stability while working with your dog. What seems most difficult for owners is not understanding these methods, but employing them. Don’t forget, the majority of dogs I see have caused their owner’s so much stress and emotional upset that it’s difficult to break that automatic response when employing the techniques for behaviour modification, and ultimately, if you can’t achieve the state of mind required to truly communicate with your dog, you’ll find it very difficult to see true changes in their behaviour. Essentially, we need to change our own behaviours in order to change our dog’s. This is why a truly good trainer or dog handler can take your dog’s leash and “magically”, the dog behaves with us. It’s not that we’re doing something different with the leash than what we’re teaching you – we just have a honed technique of maintaining the mindset that dog’s listen to.

Being an “A” type personality, my mind is constantly in overdrive, and I’ve always sought out ways to try to quiet that mind so that I can focus on the task at hand. Obviously, this has been a crucial obstacle to overcome when doing the work that I do. My yoga class offered me some new and easy ways to manage this: focus on breathing, close attention to what each muscle in the body is doing during any given pose, and eliminating negativity from the mind and body while drawing in positivity. Dogs do this all the time, both measuring their own physiology, that of their canine opponents, and most importantly, that of the owner. Unless you can present me with a dog who speaks English, the only way a dog can communicate with the world is through body language – so clearly they are better at speaking and reading body language than their human counterparts. The clearest example I can offer relates to dog ‘spats’ – two dogs meet, their eyes lock, their breathing slows and nearly stops, their muscles become stiff and still – then “Wham!!!” they quarrel. If you pay attention to your own or the handler’s body language, the human often does exactly the same thing. I frequently find owners of leash aggressive dogs approaching other dogs, and when the two meet, the owner will stiffen, become completely still, stop breathing and stare hard at both dogs. More often than not, it’s the owner’s bodily reactions that create or increase the tension between the greeting dogs, and a fight ensues. This is why we hear so often from trainers that when two dogs meet, you should always have a slack leash (which forces you, with the leash in your hand, to consciously relax), and also why many dogs do so well when off leash and so terribly when on leash.

By using the techniques of yoga, whereby practicing physiological and mental control in a calm environment without distraction, we can begin to implement these techniques in more stressful or busy situations – like when we walk a dog aggressive dog. This type of focus on what we are doing will in turn cause your dog to stop picking up stress signals from you, and be better able to focus on what you really do want to communicate instead of what you are inadvertently communicating. So if you’re having trouble getting through to your dog – try a little Yoga, it just might help!!

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Pet Fun Fest

February 18th, 2011

Pet Fun Fest was a great success!!! February 12th and 13th at Downsview Park was the place to be for dog lovers, and Helping Homeless Pets did a great job putting on a show filled with vendors, dock jumping, adoptathons and an attempt at the World’s longest and largest Sit/Stay. You can stay tuned to www.helpinghomelesspets.com for news about this year’s show, and other upcoming events. We are still running our show Contest to win a free Whole Dog Assessment with The Dog’s Assistant, and if you were there, visit us at www.thedogsassistant.ca/contact to enter your information and contest code!

I’d like to thank Danielle from Buzzdog Studios for donating some gorgeous photos to decorate our booth. Danielle does both human and canine photography all over southern Ontario, and you can check out her beautiful portfolio at www.buzzdogstudios.com. We received lots of compliments on her photos, and from watching her page on Facebook, I can assure you that she’ll capture some unique and natural shots of your dog!!

We were pleased to be help lots of dog owners with their questions about behaviour, nutrition and allergies. For those looking to reduce inflammation in their dog’s joints, improve skin quality and boost mental focus, we were selling Auum Omega 3 Seal Oil. Typically, I don’t sell product (though I have lots of recommendations when I work with my clients), but this is one I feel strongly enough about to sell. Even my Toby, who you may know from my blogs is loaded with allergies and needs special supplements to manage them, does very well on this oil. Feel free to contact me to learn more about it, or get in touch with Susan Schroeder at Lean on Me Nutrition to learn about ordering the product and the Auum line for humans. You can find Susan online at www.leanonmenutrition.com.

Over the last few months, I’ve been working hard on developing a new website for owners who want to either boost the effectiveness of kibble, or are looking for advice and recipes for home prepared dog food. I was pleased to announce at the show www.thedogskitchen.com, a free site that includes recipes, recipe exchanges and answers to all things dog nutrition. The Dog’s Assistant continues to provide private consults for diet design, balancing and of course our unique Allergy Assessment service. Many of the clients we saw at Pet Fun Fest had dogs with itchy paws, chronic ear infections and poor coat/skin, and found our suggestions for Probiotics (to control yeast in the paws and ears), Omega 3 Oil (including Seal Oil or Salmon Oil) and an easy switch from stainless steel bowls to ceramic bowls to be easy to implement and most importantly, a drug free solution to managing the symptoms of allergy.

We’re pleased to welcome many new clients to our services, and look forward to making the lives of their dogs easier, making for a happy relationship all around!!

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Getting your dog to Listen!

January 22nd, 2011

From leash manners to dog to dog aggression, jumping on people at the door to non stop barking – the majority of issues I see are partly due to poor communication. Often, there is an underlying cause for the issues that can be worked through, but in order to fully rehabilitate your dog – he has to listen! I’ve written a couple of blogs already about the miscommunication that occurs between a man and his dog, but here are a few steadfast rules that will ensure that when you have the right directions for your dog to follow, you can carry them out fearlessly and successfully!

THE FOUR ‘C’s OF DOG TRAINING:

CALM – take a deep breath before saying a command to your dog. Since greetings at the door are such a common concern, we’ll use this as an example here. If the appropriate command for your dog in this situation is Wait, make sure you say it calmly. Imagine – your dog has heard a doorbell, and he’s experiencing all kinds of excitement and anxiety, and suddenly you run over to him, grab him hard and shout in a panicky voice “Wait”!! It’s like someone grabbing you by the arm and yelling “Relax!!!” Is that relaxing? If you demonstrate a calm demeanor, your dog will be more likely to calm down as well.

CLEAR – here is what normally happens to a person when their dog charges the door to greet a guest “Wait! Buddy, Wait!!!! Don’t you move, stay right there!! You have to stay there so I can let Jane inside, and don’t you jump on her!! Stay there!”. You had him at Wait!! Teach your dog what Wait means, and when you want him to use that skill, use only that word. Adding sentences and stories only confuses the dog and also increases his anxiety, as he no longer knows what’s expected of him. It also helps to annunciate – meaning, say the word with a clear voice, rather than while still chewing a piece of muffin. He should hear the W, the AI, and the TTTTT very clearly.

CONSISTENT – always ask your dog to do the same thing in same situations. If you want him to Wait a few feet back from the door when someone arrives, always have him do this. He should not have different rules for different people, i.e. when Grandma comes over, you have to wait – but when it’s just Jane from next door, you can go right over and say hi. The dog should begin to automatically know what to do upon the sound of the doorbell….”bell rings, I wait at the carpet at the bottom of the stairs till Mommy says I can go say hi” This is much better and simpler than “Bell rings!! I wonder who it is? Do I have to wait this time or can I just go say hi like I really want to? I’m gonna try to go say hi first since that’s more fun and hope Mommy doesn’t make me wait”.

CONFIDENT – I used to have a teacher who always said “say what you mean and mean what you say.” A part of that lesson was to learn that if you had conviction, if you believed what you were saying, other people would understand it and believe it as well. Your dog knows when you’re lying, so if you don’t really mean what you’re asking him to do, or if you don’t believe what you’re asking him to do is the right thing to do, you will not convince him of that either. Sort of like when it’s really funny how your dog reacts when he gets in trouble, and then you try to fake it in front of your friends and he doesn’t respond the same way he does when it’s real. If you are hesitant, unsure or unsupportive of the command or method that you’re executing with your dog, it’s not very likely that he’s going to do it. If you can imagine in your mind that your dog is going to Wait on the carpet while you open the door, and you really believe he can do it, you’ll be much more successful in actually getting him to do it.

So, relax, give a calm, clear command the same way every time, and have faith in your dog that he can do it! You’ll be a lot closer to achieving the levels of behaviour that you really want in your dog!

P.S.
If you have a trainer that is asking you to do something that you believe is wrong, harsh, or you are in any way uncomfortable with – tell your trainer!! Any canine professional worth their salt knows that if you don’t believe it, you won’t do it. Besides, there are lots of ways to teach a dog one simple thing, so an accomplished trainer will be able to provide alternatives that you are more comfortable working with.

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Christmas – Gone to the Dogs!

December 5th, 2010

Toby’s Christmas

Published December 2009 – Boxer Rescue Ontario Newsletter
Hi! Merry Christmas wiggles! My name is Toby and I’m a four year old Boxer. My Mom rescued me last August, and we have a great time together. So far, aside from walking, eating, playing with my toys and getting treats, my most favourite thing to do with Mom is this thing she calls Christmas. Last year, she told me all about this man named Santa! I never got to see him, but he must be a pretty cool guy because he brought me MORE treats, MORE toys AND he brought stuff for my Mom too! What a nice guy – he’s never even met me and he knows exactly what I like! I can’t wait until he comes again this year! This Christmas thing was just a pain before with all the new rules and tempting things, but now that Santa comes for ME, it all pays off!
The best part about Santa is that he wraps up my new presents in this special paper – and Mom lets me tear it apart and make a huge mess! She says I can have fun with it, but only if I only do it on this special day called Christmas. Mom says Santa gets this special paper without any of the toxins or dyes that might make my tummy upset, and that he gets it at this place called the SPCA, or some of the doggy grocery stores we go to. I can have regular wrapping paper too, but Mom has to be really careful that I don’t eat it. The stuff Santa brings for Mom has this pretty string on it called ribbon, but Mom keeps her wrapping and ribbons in a bag on the table because she keeps saying it’s not a toy and that I might choke on it. Maybe one day I can have ribbons for Christmas! They look so shiny and fun to play with! But Mom still says no and hides it out of my reach. Maybe one year Santa will bring me thumbs to grab stuff off the table with….
Before Christmas, Mom gets presents from a special early Santa for all the other humans, and she hides those too in case I wreck them. She’s always telling me about this stuff that looks like snow cookies called ‘styrofoam’, and that it could make me choke or be sick. Sometimes when the humans come over, they eat and drinks lots of cookies and smelly water, and they can get kinda loud and annoying. Some of the humans feed me their cookies, but they make my tummy sick, so Mom always says “no cookies for the dog!” and makes sure that no one comes into my room. I just stay in my room and watch from there sometimes because it’s a lot quieter, no one steps on my toes and it’s not so tempting to eat those fancy treats that are everywhere. That can be hard to pass up when you’re on a special diet like me!
Some of the humans bring my dog friends over to play with me. My friend Tyson showed me these weird things that look like little snakes, and at the other end of them are these pretty little lights in lots of different colours. Tyson likes to chew on them, but Mom says they’re called ‘electrical cables’, and she tries pretty hard to hide them behind the couch and stuff so that me and Tyson don’t play with them. She says we will get ‘electrocuted’, and whenever she puts out the cables before Christmas, she doesn’t leave me alone in the same room with them and I have to stay in my room when she goes out. Tyson also showed me how to jump up on the kitchen counter and grab the good human treats. His Mom gates off the kitchen when she’s playing with the other humans so that he can’t do that, and when my Mom caught us she moved most of the treats into the fridge, put some of them into containers we couldn’t get open, and moved the rest to the very back of the counter so we couldn’t get at them. Tyson was mad, but I didn’t care. At Christmas they eat lots of this brown stuff that smells really good, but every time I eat it Mom takes me to see Dr. Smith and he says I have chocolate poisoning and then he makes me throw it back out. It’s kinda yucky that way and Mom tells me after that I spent all my allowance at Dr. Smith. Believe me, it’s not the best way to spend your allowance!
Christmas time is sort of mean though too. I have to pass this special test where Mom brings the bathroom into the living room! For weeks there’s this big tree just staring at me begging me to go pee on it, and Mom says I can’t! It must be a special kind of tree, because it’s got all these shiny balls on it, just like the ones I play with outside! But every time I come within a foot of the tree, Mom says ‘leave it’ and I have to listen so that she’ll say I‘m a good boy. If I don’t leave it alone, she’ll come and make me lie down somewhere else, and sometimes I’d really rather just wander around. Besides, Mom practices these words like ‘leave it’ with me all year, so I pretty much understand and it’s just easier to do what Mom says. Might even get a cookie for it!
Even though I can’t go near the tree and play with the toys on it, and I can’t pee on it, and I can’t eat all the good food, and all these humans come and bug me, Mom makes it better when she lets me go into my own room and get some peace and quiet, and Santa makes it WAY better ‘cause be brings me so much cool stuff! I think I’m starting to figure this out! Mom says she talked to Santa and I’m getting some really great new toys this year! Just 30 more big sleeps and 120 meals and 60 walks and 422 naps till he gets here again! Wiggle bum! Wiggle bum! Merry Christmas everyone!

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Setbacks and Successes

November 21st, 2010

Dog training, from a dog owner’s perspective, is a bit like dieting. If you work hard at it every single day, pay attention to the little details and set reasonable goals, when you reach a goal weight or pant size, you feel successful. The flipside is of course the cheesecake on a Friday night, the Belgian waffle on a Sunday morning, the day in front of the television set instead of at the gym, and the subsequent self loathing and guilt when your pants don’t quite zip up the next week. As any diet coach will tell you – we ALL have these setbacks and ultimately the true value of your success is measured in how you’ve overcome these setbacks. And even though it’s not measured in pounds or inches, the same is true for training your dog.

When Toby first came to me, I was staying with my Mum during a transitory period of my life. She had her Black Lab ‘Abby’ at the time, who, prior to Toby’s arrival, had been the only dog in the home. She was a tolerant dog but not terribly affectionate or playful, and so long as no one messed with her food, the biggest reaction you’d get out of her was a groan as she rolled over to go to sleep. Toby was the opposite; he was Mr. Reactive, and would lash out if Abby so much as looked at his toys, treats, me or even the stairs to the basement (where Toby and in were staying in the in-law suite). Obviously this was a problem, and we began working on it right away. However, we were only there for a few months, and once we moved it became rather difficult to work with a dog on indoor resource guarding when he was the only dog in the home and had no one to practice with. Between foster dogs coming and going over the following 18 months, my mother-in-law’s two Retrievers coming for sleep overs and the incredible amount of outdoor socialization we’ve done, Toby certainly improved. I didn’t realize how much until last week, when we had both of “the girls” (my mother in law’s dogs) staying here for 5 nights and Shawn was away working for 4 of those nights. To my surprise, delight and frankly relief, Toby was excellent. Not a single incident, growl, sideways look or tense moment for the first four and half days! I couldn’t believe it! I was so very proud of him, and a little proud of myself to see all of our hard work paying off. What a wonderful success!

And then, about five minutes past the four and a half day mark, Toby had a setback. It was minor (just a little noise and posturing, no bodily contact or retaliation), given the situation, but it did tarnish our so far perfect week. It was frustrating to say the least, but only for a moment. In light of the incredible success we’d had, this tiny slip up factored very small in the grand scheme of things. Following that, we went back to wagging tails and happy pups, and ended the week on a note of brotherly/sisterly love. I could have perceived that incident very differently, and built on that so much that it would have erased all of the progress that had been made. I reminded myself that Toby, like us, has varying emotions, good days and bad days, and that ultimately one slice of cheesecake inside a week of salads is not the thing to focus on.

It’s a common thing to hear dog trainers say that they train the owners, not the dogs. I admit this is partly true, but I think it’s such a popular saying because it’s equally as difficult to train an owner as it is a dog. Most behaviour issues arise out of habit, both the dog’s and the owner’s, and it’s just as difficult for a dog to break his reactive habit as it is for an owner to change the way they communicate with their dog. Dogs become so accustomed to responding to certain stimuli in a certain way, it can be extremely difficult for them to learn to respond an entirely different way, especially as that stimulus becomes increasingly more challenging. There is a huge amount of focus and willpower required on the part of the dog for he/she to utilize their new skills in every scenario that they should, and every once in a while, it won’t come naturally, and the old habits break through for a moment. That’s ok!!! So long as the majority of the time, dog and owner are working together to improve the way they communicate and react, and are successful in changing what they did wrong before, it doesn’t have to be perfect every single moment of every single day. The key is to roll with the punches, learn from what went wrong, and move on from your setbacks to get back on the track to success.

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